Tuesday, December 2, 2014

Confessions of a Prairie Bitch: How I Survived Nellie Oleson and Learned to Love Being Hated – Alison Arngrim





     I picked this book out of the library on a whim. I’m always on the lookout for a good autobiography and this one definitely qualifies as that. Alison Arngrim played Nellie Oleson on the television series Little House on the Prairie. Nellie Oleson as fans may remember was a spoiled selfish child, the great nemesis of the show’s main character Laura Ingalls. Over the 7 year span of the show, fans watched as Nellie, Laura, Mary, and the rest of the cast grew up. Being nosy and not content to leave it at that, I had to check out this book to go along with my review of the first five Little House on the Prairie books.

     The book starts out, where most autobiographies do, with a bit of background about Alison Arngrim’s family. Originally from Canada, both her parents were in show biz. Her mom played a slew of cartoon characters and happily preformed for Alison’s school friends whenever she was asked. Her father was a talent manager, not many of his clients were mentioned except for Liberace but I gather he was moderately successful. Her older brother was in television as a child but as he reached his teenage years was deemed too old and rebellious to get many or any jobs. As a result of her parents’ busy schedules, Alison was left home much of the time with her brother who took his frustrations out on his little sister in the form of beatings and, later, rapes and molestation. She figured working would get her out of the house and away from the abuse so she started going to auditions and finally landed the gig as Nellie Oleson. From there, she made friends with some of the other cast members and was out from under the thumb of her brother and his friends. There is more gossip and behind the scenes info about all the cast and goings on until the show ended. There are also quite a few stories about her friendships with various cast members after the show ended. The last part of the book dealt with her future after the show. How she dealt with the repercussions of her abuse and the death of her best friend from AIDs, was perhaps the most moving part of the book. She has used her fame to become a great advocate against child abuse and for helping AIDs patients.


     I really enjoyed reading this book. There was a perfect mixture of humor and drama. I always like to hear about stars doing well or people actually coping with their demons instead of using them as an excuse for acting like a jerk. From what I’ve read about other biographies about the stars of the same show, I’m not sure I’ll look into more of them. If I do, you’ll be the first to know. More reviews, coming soon.

~Wolfe

About Me

I love movies, music, and just about anything containing the written word. I also play a lot of games in my down time; video games, what has become known as adult board games, and RPGs among them.